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NTV has launched a free, online National Directory of Services for people who use violence.

The National Directory supports professionals with their referral practice by making it easier to find trusted specialist and community services to meet client needs and support pathways for change. | Access the directory

Preventing violence against women: Engaging men from culturally and linguistically diverse communities

9 June | 1-2pm | Online | FREE | Register here

Hosted by the Australian Institute of Family Studies (AIFS), this webinar will bring together research, practice and lived experience to explore what meaningful engagement with men looks like and important considerations to support engagement with men from culturally and linguistically diverse backgrounds. 

*This webinar is being promoted using the umbrella term ‘culturally and linguistically diverse’ or CALD. We recognise that this term is widely used across the child and family sector as a shorthand, but it can obscure the diversity of people’s identities, cultures, languages, migration pathways and experiences.

Masculinities and Misogyny Online: Current Findings and Future Directions

Deakin Downtown, Melbourne, 13-14 July | Read more
A two-day conference in Melbourne exploring current and emerging research on the manosphere. Titled Masculinities and Misogyny Online: Current Findings and Future Directions in Research on the Manosphere, the conference will bring together leading scholars, policy makers, and members of the community sector. Presentations will showcase new research on the manosphere and digital misogyny, discuss the challenges of researching this area, and highlight strategies and interventions for responding to and countering manosphere-related harms.

Research and reports

No To Violence

Online perpetrator interventions | NTV, 2024 | Read more
This discussion paper on the latest online Men’s Behaviour Change Programs is informed by interviews with practitioners, conversations with No to Violence members and review of existing literature.

Background documents

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The role of men’s behaviour change programs in addressing men’s use of domestic, family and sexual violence
ANROWS, 2025 |

What works? A qualitative exploration of Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander healing programs that respond to family violence | ANROWS, 2024 | Read More

Australian Domestic and Family Violence Death Review Network Data Report: Intimate partner violence homicides 2010–2018
ANROWS, 2024 | Read More

Family and domestic violence perpetrator programs: Issues paper of current and emerging trends, developments and expectations
Vlais et al, Stopping Family Violence, 2017 | Read More

Prioritising women’s safety in Australian perpetrator interventions: The purpose and practices of partner contact
ANROWS, 2020 | Read More
This report explores how men’s behaviour change programs support women and children through contact with them throughout the process.

Improved accountability: The role of perpetrator intervention systems
ANROWS, 2020 | Read More

Domestic Violence Perpetrator Programmes: Steps Towards Change. Project Mirabal Final Report
Liz Kelly, Nicole Westmarland, 2015 | Read More

Prevalence

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  • Attitudes matter: The 2021 National Community Attitudes towards Violence against Women Survey (NCAS), Findings for Australia | ANROWS, 2023 | Read More
  • Identifying and understanding child sexual offending behaviours and attitudes among Australian men | 2023 | Read more
    This research measures the prevalence of offending and risk behaviours and attitudes amongst of a weighted sample of 1,945 Australian men over 18 years of age.
  • Perpetration of sexual violence in a community sample of adult Australians | Laura Doherty and Christopher Dowling, Australian Institute of Criminology, 2024 | Read More
  • Prevalence of recorded family and domestic violence offending: A birth cohort study | Jason Payne and Anthony Morgan, Australian Institute of Criminology, 2024 | Read More
  • Technology-facilitated abuse: Self-Reported Perpetration by Australians 18+ | ANROWS | Access
  • The use of intimate partner violence among Australian men | O’Donnell et al, Ten to Men: The Australian Longitudinal Study on Male Health, The Australian Institute of Family Studies, 2025 | Read More

Key policy documents

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Broadening the Focus: Queensland’s strategy to strengthen responses to people who use domestic and family violence 2024 to 2028 | Queensland Government, 2024 | Read More

Building Better Responses: NSW Strategy to Respond to the Use of Domestic and Family Violence 2026–2030 | New South Wales Department of Communities and Justice, 2025 | Read More

Building the evidence base: Inquiry into capturing data on people who use family violence in Victoria Final Report | Victorian Legislative Assembly Legal and Social Issues Committee, 2025 | Read More

Unlocking the Prevention Potential: accelerating action to end domestic, family and sexual violence | Australian Department of the Prime Minister and Cabinet, 2025 | Read More

Research on pathways INTO violence

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Change the story: A shared framework for the primary prevention of violence against women in Australia (second edition)
Our Watch, 2021 | Read More

“It’s Really Important that we Listen to Them”: Engaging Immigrant Men in Family Violence Prevention
Elliott, K., Block, K., Cho, H., & Murdolo, A, 2025 | Read more

Coercive Control Literature Review: Final Report
Australian Institute of Family Studies, 2023 | Read More

The “Pathways to intimate partner homicide” project: Key stages and events in male-perpetrated intimate partner homicide in Australia | ANROWS, 2022 | Read More

Who uses domestic, family, and sexual violence, how, and why? The State of Knowledge Report on Violence Perpetration
Flood et al, Queensland University of Technology, 2022 | Read More

Identifying and understanding child sexual offending behaviours and attitudes among Australian men | 2023 | Read more
This research measures the prevalence of offending and risk behaviours and attitudes amongst of a weighted sample of 1,945 Australian men over 18 years of age.

Research on pathways OUT violence

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Supporting Neurodivergent clients: A guide for practitioners facilitating domestic abuse perpetrator interventions | Renehan et al, 2026 | Read more

Interventions for migrant and refugee men who use domestic, family and sexual violence: An integrative review of evidence | ANROWS, 2025 | Read More

Evaluation of the Northern Territory’s men’s behaviour change programs | ANROWS, 2025 | Read More

Improving responses to young men’s use of intimate partner violence: Towards a best practice approach 
University of Western Sydney, 2025 | Read more
This research seeks to understand how to improve service responses to young men aged 16–25 using intimate partner violence (IPV) in Victoria, Australia.

Engaging in Change: A Victorian study of perpetrator program attrition and participant engagement in men’s behaviour change programs | Fitz-Gibbon et al, 2024 | Read More

Saving FACE Faith Sector Guide | Muslim Women Australia, 2023 | Access
A primary prevention initiative implementing sustainable change in faith-based communities, developed in the context of faith-based principles. This Sector Guide will build the sectors capacity to engage in culturally, linguistically and religiously appropriate care.

Interventions for perpetrators of domestic, family and sexual violence in Australia | ANROWS, 2021 | Read more
Aligned with the National Outcome Standards for Perpetrator Interventions, this research examines how human services (e.g. mental health, alcohol and other drugs, child protection) can be integral to perpetrator intervention systems.

Men’s behaviour change programs: Measuring outcomes and improving program quality | ANROWS, 2019 | Read more  
This research aimed to identify how to improve the quality of Men’s Behaviour Change Programs (MBCPs), how to measure outcomes and how to develop standards and accreditation processes that will improve quality and consistency of practice.

Evaluation of the Drive Project – A Three-year Pilot to Address High-risk, High-harm Perpetrators of Domestic Abuse | University of Bristol, 2019 | Read More

Invisible Practices: Intervention with fathers who use violence. Key findings and future directions | ANROWS, 2018 | Read more
This research challenges traditional domestic and family violence responses that centre on mothers or separation alone. It promotes working with the whole family, including fathers who use violence, to better assess risk and support women and children.

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Practice guides and resources

No To Violence

NTV have a range of resources, including practitioner guidance, factsheets and more
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  • Family Safety Advocacy Practice Guidance | Open
  • Trauma and violence informed practice: Considerations when working with people using violence | Open

Practice spotlight: Contributions of Rodney Vlais

Rodney Vlais is an independent trainer, policy advisor, researcher and supervisor in family and domestic violence perpetrator interventions and perpetrator intervention systems. He currently consults to NGOs or governments across most Australian jurisdictions, and at a national level. Rodney has significant experience in men’s behaviour change program work and the delivery of counselling and clinical services more broadly. He is also involved in social movements that weave anti-hierarchical, autonomous organising with intersectional feminism towards ecological and social justice.

These extensive materials are an invaluable resource to our sectors and we thank Rodney for allowing us all to freely view and access their work.

Resources for responding to adult users of domestic, family and sexual violence

Compilation written by Rodney Vlais during 2025

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‘Types’ of adults who perpetrate domestic, family and sexual violence: Different motives for using power and control | Rodney Vlais, 2025 | Download | Join the conversation
This resource focuses on six features that can differentiate adults, with broad implications for practice. The features are defined by differences in adult motive(s) for using power and control in their intimate relationships.

10 tips for starting the conversation with adult users of domestic, family and sexual violence | Rodney Vlais | Download | Join the conversation

15 signs that a (necessarily strong) focus on gender in working with domestic, family and sexual violence perpetrators discounts the role of trauma | Rodney Vlais, 2025 | Download | Join the conversation

15 signs that a trauma-informed approach to working with male users of domestic, family and sexual violence is becoming de-gendered | Rodney Vlais, 2025 | Download | Join the conversation

15 types of specialist interventions within a continuum of responses to adult users of domestic, family and sexual violence | Rodney Vlais, 2025 | Download | Join the conversation
Towards a comprehensive rather than piecemeal approach through understanding the roles, purpose and realistic expectations of each type.

20 practice considerations and skills to help an adult user of domestic, family and sexual violence to (gently) push through their shame barrier | Rodney Vlais, 2025 | Download | Join the conversation
Shame-sensitive practice with adult users of violence is tricky. We do not want to collude. This guide shows skills you can use to help these adults safely push through their shame barrier, so they can become open to conversations about change.

20 practice tips for responding to adults who use ethnocultural identity to justify attitudes and beliefs that condone violence, control and male power | Rodney Vlais, 2025 | Download | Join the conversation

20 things we can learn about risk through engaging the adult user of domestic, family and sexual violence | Rodney Vlais, 2025 | Download | Join the conversation
Assessing and managing risk is as important as long-term behaviour change when engaging users of violence. This infographic shares what we can learn about risk through interviewing or working with adult perpetrators of domestic, family and sexual violence.

A practice model for responding to the “I’m the victim here!” thinking of adults who perpetrate violent and controlling behaviour | Rodney Vlais, 2025 | Download | Join the conversation

Addressing violent and controlling behaviours associated with possessive jealousy amongst adult users of domestic, family and sexual violence | Rodney Vlais, 2025 | Download | Join the conversation
The resource explores how gendered beliefs, entitlement and anxious attachment styles combine through a strengthened analysis of possessiveness.

Assessing and responding to serious risk and harm caused by adult persons who perpetrate domestic, family and sexual violence | Rodney Vlais, 2026 | Download | Join the conversation

Case planning for adults who perpetrate domestic and family violence to reduce risk and harm for adult and child victim-survivors | Rodney Vlais, 2025 | Download | Join the conversation

Community reparenting of adult users of violence | Rodney Vlais, 2026 | Download | Join the conversation

Domestic and family violence informed practice concepts towards safer fathering and co-parenting | Rodney Vlais, 2025 | Download | Join the conversation

Encouraging safe, productive self-confrontation, rather than confronting, the person causing harm | Rodney Vlais, 2026 | Download | Join the conversation

Engaging fathers who use domestic and family violence | Rodney Vlais, 2024 | Download | Join the conversation

Entitlement and other factors in contributing to coercive control | Rodney Vlais, 2025 | Download | Join the conversation

Five broad strategies for engaging with adult users of domestic, family and sexual violence | Rodney Vlais, 2026 | Download | Join the conversation

For responders, practitioners and services who aren’t specialised in engaging with adults who use violence, or who are developing preliminary skills | Rodney Vlais, 2025 | Download | Join the conversation
Some ideas of practice concepts, skills and micro-skills in engaging adult users of domestic, family and sexual violence.

Four considerations in understanding and assessing choices to use violent and controlling behaviour | Rodney Vlais, 2025 | Download | Join the conversation

Guiding explorations for male practitioners in men’s domestic, sexual and family violence behaviour change work to develop their gender antennae | Rodney Vlais, 2025 | Download | Join the conversation

How to create safety to be more direct with adult users of domestic, family and sexual violence | Rodney Vlais, 2026 | Download | Join the conversation
This guide outlines skills and strategies to make it safer to be more direct with adults who perpetrate domestic, family and sexual violence.

How to identify users of domestic, family and sexual violence who are not genuine about a change journey…and how to communicate this to others | Rodney Vlais, 2026 | Download | Join the conversation

Language to use with adult users of domestic, family and sexual violence | Rodney Vlais | Download | Join the conversation
Language that blames the victim-survivor vs Language that places responsibility on to the user of violence

Mid-point skills towards minimising collusion and persecution when engaging adult users of domestic, family and sexual violence | Rodney Vlais, 2025 | Download | Join the conversation
Finding the mid-point between collusion and persecution is pivotal when engaging adult users of domestic, family and sexual violence. This resource outlines a number of skills and micro-skills to assist practitioners and other responders to do so.

Non-collusive listening when engaging adult users of domestic, family and sexual violence | Rodney Vlais, 2026 | Download | Join the conversation

Perpetrator Action Plan Toolkit | Rodney Vlais, 2025 | Download | Join the conversation
Guides and tools for practitioners working with parents and other adults who use domestic and family violence

Perpetrator Serious-Risk Action Plan | Rodney Vlais, 2025 | Download | Join the conversation
This tool is designed to assist risk management planning in domestic and family violence situations when services, multi-agency teams or other responders are concerned about an adult posing a serious risk of severe outcomes.

Practice suggestions for identifying & responding to male perpetrators of domestic, family & sexual violence who pose a risk of severe harm | Rodney Vlais, 2025 | Download | Join the conversation

REMIND practice mnemonic for engaging adult users of domestic, family and sexual violence with little or no openness to change | Rodney Vlais, 2025 | Download | Join the conversation

Safety planning and discussing bottom line child protection concerns with adults who use domestic and family violence | Rodney Vlais, 2025 | Download | Join the conversation

Safety planning with adults who cause domestic and family violence harm, to attempt to prevent and interrupt choices to use violent and controlling behaviour | Rodney Vlais, 2025 | Download | Join the conversation

Severe Behaviours Risk Management and Plan | Rodney Vlais, 2025 | Download | Join the conversation
Use this tool in situations where the adult person using violence presents a serious risk of severe outcomes.

Stages of Change considerations | Rodney Vlais, 2025 | Download | Join the conversation

Taking the ‘pyramid of shame’ into account when engaging adult users of domestic, family and sexual violence | Rodney Vlais, 2026 | Download | Join the conversation
The pyramid provides an intense window into the layers of shame experienced by some users of violence.

The BEST-EARS approach: Responding to blame, minimisation and denial by an adult user of violence | Rodney Vlais, 2025 | Download | Join the conversation
How might we avoid becoming side-tracked by denial and victim-blaming when engaging adult perpetrators of domestic and family violence? The resource briefly how to conduct the conversation.

Three anchors model when engaging fathers who cause domestic & family violence and co/parenting harm | Rodney Vlais, 2025 | Download | Join the conversation

Trauma-Informed Enquiry into Harm and Future Safety: Moving from Disconnection toward Connection | Rodney Vlais, 2025 | Download | Join the conversation
This trauma-informed enquiry model is designed to scaffold difficult conversations with clients, particularly when the client’s nervous system may be stuck in a state of disconnection.

Understanding and responding to adult male users of domestic, family and sexual violence with highly elevated narcissistic characteristics | Rodney Vlais | Download | Join the conversation

We can go a little down the rabbit hole of listening to the violence-supporting narratives of the adult user of violence with awareness, purpose and direction to draw the adult back out | Rodney Vlais, 2026 | Download | Join the conversation

What does it mean to ‘hold’ adult perpetrators of domestic and family violence accountable? | Rodney Vlais, 2025 | Download | Join the conversation

Working with adult users of domestic and family violence who have a trauma background | Rodney Vlais, 2025 | Download | Join the conversation
This resource explores different types of trauma and ways in which trauma may affect adults who use violence. It also provides considerations for trauma and violence informed practice when working with individuals in such circumstances.

*NEW* Neurodiversity in Domestic Abuse (NDiDA) Practice Toolkit | Access resource

A new practice toolkit has just launched to support practitioners working with neurodivergent men in domestic abuse perpetrator interventions.

Led by Nicole Renehan from Durham University’s Centre for Research into Violence and Abuse, the Neurodiversity in Domestic Abuse (NDiDA) Practice Toolkit offers practical guidance for working safely, effectively and inclusively with neurodivergent clients. The toolkit was developed in collaboration with Respect through their early response programme Make a Change, alongside Kay Louise Aldred, Community Justice Scotland and Probation Service North East.

What Kind of Man Do You Want to Be? | Read more
The newest update to the What Kind of Man Do You Want to Be? campaign by Respect Victoria is now live, featuring 14 Victorian men from various speaking backgrounds sharing personal reflections in their own languages on the expectations, pressures and possibilities of masculinity. New resources are also now available to download and use in your communities and workplaces.

Invisible Practices: Working with fathers who use violence. Practice Guide
ANROWS, 2018 | Access guide

This practice guide is based on the learnings that emerged from the Invisible Practices Project.

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Training

Opportunities to enhance skills working with people using violence.

No to Violence

NTV is the peak body in Australia for organisations and individuals who work with men to end family violence.

NTV’s Workforce Development team offer training and professional development to all organisations committed to ending men’s use of violence and abuse.

Training sessions regularly offered include:

  • Multi Agency Risk Assessment and Management Framework (MARAM): Adults Using Family Violence (AUFV)
  • The Five Essentials Discussion Training
  • Grad Cert in Client Assessment and Case Management (CHC82015)
  • Engaging Dads
  • Custom training

Jump to the FVSV training page to read more about NTV courses and training sessions.

Pssst… Looking for training about young people using violence?

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The information provided on this Family Violence Sexual Violence Knowledge Hub is curated to be the most recent and relevant available. While the content is continually being developed and will be regularly updated to reflect the latest insights and best practices, these resources are not exhaustive. While we strive to maintain the accuracy and timeliness of the information, we encourage users to check back frequently for new and refreshed materials, and to contact the relevant peak body if you would like more information about family violence, sexual violence and/or working with children and families in this context.

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